July 29th 2020

Safety and Privacy concerns

You don't compromise on your safety and privacy and neither do we. Most of our efforts go towards adding features with your safety in mind. Here are some of the things we are already doing:


Every user of LetsDefinitely.com must have an account in order to browse member profiles. This prevents anonymous users or search engines from viewing your profile or appearing in Google search results.

Do you want to only interact with a certain age range of users? In your profile settings, you have the option to select an age range. This means users outside of that range will not be able to interact with you or to even see your profile.


If you wish to not have any interaction with a specific member for any reason, you can click on the 'Block' button on their profile at any time. This ensures that member can no longer interact with you or see your profile. They will never be informed that you have blocked them. Any active dates that you may have will automatically be cancelled.


We only allow members that have fully completed their profile to interact with other members. This includes name, date of birth, gender, location, and a profile picture.

After the date, we ask each member to provide private feedback about the safety of their date. This feedback is never shared with the other person and is only used by our team. Our team constantly examines the feedback about our members, and if it is determined that someone poses a risk, their account may be suspended.

We are working hard to provide more flexibility in the ways you can control the visibility of your profile. Please don't hesitate to contact me personally with your suggestions and concerns

July 24th 2020

Welcome to LetsDefinitely.com

Welcome to the launch of LetsDefinitely.com! Our goal is to take the guesswork out of dating, let me explain what that actually means. In designing the site, we've followed the advice of long-time dating and relationship expert Corey Wayne.

Making definite plans, by setting a specific date, time, and place to meet leads to more kept dates and less frustrating situations of being stood up. When two people make definite plans it shows they respect and value each other's time and are looking forward to seeing each other.

How we accomplish that

When someone catches your interest and you would like to possibly setup a date, you will send them a message along with what you will like to do on the date, where, and when. Don't worry about scheduling just yet, this is designed to show that you are serious about meeting and not a time-waster. Once the other person responds and is interested you can iron out the details of the exact date and time.

Once you've both accepted the date, make every effort to show up. Making definite plans means there is no need for confirmations and no flaky responses.

Messaging before the date

Are you tired of endless messaging that leads nowhere? We still allow a limited number of messages to be exchanged between you two to get to know a bit about the other person before the date. As well as to help you decide if you want the date! Studies have shown that too much virtual communication before a date leads to less fulfilling dates. People present themselves the best in person, so let them do it. Virtual messaging is unnatural and can leads to misunderstandings.

Tips for the date

  • Only agree to meet in a public place where you would feel comfortable. Do not meet at someone's apartment.
  • Make sure to arrive at the agree upon time. Also make sure you have a way to get home safely afterward.
  • Don't have unrealistic expectations. Treat this as a fun-filled opportunity to get to know each other, and see where it goes!

After the date

Should I call after the date? Does she want another date? Does he want to see me again?

These kind of questions cause unnecessary confusion. After the date, both of you will be asked to give your feedback on a 2nd date. No more guesswork! If you like, you can go into detail, but it isn't necessary. You can simply indicate if you would like another date.

If you both said yes, congratulations. Since it has worked out so well, why change the formula? We recommend you setup the first 3 dates using LetsDefinitely.com. Try to schedule one date per week.

Have fun

Keep an eye on this section for more updates as we release new features. I would greatly appreciate any feedback that you have. Please don't hesitate to contact me personally.

Founder of LetsDefinitely.com